The Worth of a Wildflower

The Worth of a Wildflower

Women are like flowers. There’s more to that simile than just a comparison of two beautiful things. We value a bloom’s beauty, and also its fragility. The hard-to-grow, fussy flowers are the ones that are most in demand. Nobody’s going nuts about wildflowers...
The Problem With Men

The Problem With Men

Where to even begin? The privilege that comes with being a man in this world is sickening. As a woman, I look at the men around me and roll my eyes when they complain about whatever struggle they might have. I have slightly more empathy for the men of colour, and...
Dear Body of Mine, I’m Sorry!

Dear Body of Mine, I’m Sorry!

A letter to my body: “I’m sorry!” My body and I usually have a good relationship with each other. We care for each other. We cherish each other. We nourish each other. We love each other. That was not always the case. For many, many years, I would abuse my body in all...
The Dating Pool Dilemma

The Dating Pool Dilemma

Dating these days is nuts. I am in my 30s and open to the possibility of a relationship, but seriously struggling to reinstall the apps because I’m traumatized by the encounters I’ve had in the past. At this point, many of you are probably assuming this is going to be...
If You Love Me You’ll Fight With Me

If You Love Me You’ll Fight With Me

Unpopular truth – It is normal, even healthy, to have fights in order to build a happy, functional, nourishing, and loving relationship. That doesn’t sound right to you? Well, it is true. To eliminate any conflict is a form of avoidance and potentially can be...
To Less Anxiety in 2023

To Less Anxiety in 2023

At the start of every year, I notice this weird feeling creeping in. If you’re like me, January comes with a lot of pressure to put big plans in place for the year ahead. I know everyone has their timeline, and everyone’s goals look different, but that doesn’t change...